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21 Best Gay Hotels in Honolulu Hawaii

A stay in Honolulu is all about the beach, and as luck would have it, all of the gay activities happen on and around Waikiki Beach. This tiny neighborhood is home to over 80 hotels, including some standout gay hotels in Honolulu, Hawaii that cater to gay travelers looking for chic, welcoming vibes. Some are absolute beach-front, while others are a couple of blocks away.

Unlike cities like New York and San Francisco, which have many gay-owned and operated hotels, that’s not the case in Honolulu. However, no hotel will turn away the coveted ‘pink dollar,’ and you’ll be welcomed with open arms wherever you go.

Even if it means paying a little more for it, upgrade yourself to an ocean-view room. How many times will you get an opportunity to be this deep in the heart of the Pacific Ocean?

Are you considering getting married in Honolulu? Same-sex marriage has been legal in Hawaii for more than ten years. Hawaii is the perfect wedding/honeymoon destination, all in one.

Hawaiian culture has recognized gay couples for centuries. While there are no official gay hotels in Honolulu, Hawaii, you’ll find that all accommodations are welcoming.

Choosing where to stay in Waikiki depends on location, facilities, and amenities. No matter which one you choose from our list, you’ll feel like you’re in your home away from home. The Laylow, Autograph Collection and Hilton Vacation Club The Modern Honolulu are some top-rated hotels in Waikiki that are popular among gay travelers.

Honolulu is very small compared to most big cities in the US. The Waikiki area is only 2 miles long by half a mile wide and is where you’ll find most of the gay life.

Gay bars are scattered throughout Waikiki, with most found near the International Marketplace, which is bang in the middle of the main street, Kuhio Avenue.

Most likely, the main reason you’re coming to Honolulu is for the beach life, so even if you can’t book an absolute beachfront hotel. Many hotels offer ocean-view rooms, letting you soak in those Pacific vibes without being right on the sand.

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Why we love it

♥ It’s like stepping back in time
♥ Ocean-facing restaurants and bars
♥ The Vintage 1901 wine bar
♥ 24-hour fitness studio

Since 1901, ‘The First Lady of Waikiki’ has been the place to stay on Waikiki Beach. Classic elegance radiates from every corner of the hotel. The hotel is listed on the National Register of Historic Places, and every room in the Banyan Wing is reminiscent of the original rooms. For a more contemporary stay, choose the Tower Wing; all rooms have balconies and ocean views.

Swim in the intimate pool under the historic Banyan tree or sunbathe on one of Waikiki’s longest stretches of beach. For a unique experience, visit the Vintage 1901 wine bar in the lobby and sip cocktails while pianist David Swanson plays all your favorites.

Escape to the Moana Surfrider, A Westin Resort & Spa, a romantic, beachfront gay-friendly haven in Waikiki. Enjoy ocean views, sunset cocktails, and unforgettable moments in paradise. Book your dream getaway now!

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♥ Lower room rates than most other hotels
♥ Conveniently located near the convention center
♥ Super-friendly staff
♥ No resort fees

For those of you who want a resort slightly away from the hustle and bustle. Ramada Plaza by Wyndham is an excellent option.

Getting to the beach is only a few minute’s walk via the Hilton’s lagoon area. Rooms have city or ocean views. There is an on-site restaurant, and you get a discount when you show your room key; alternatively, the Ala Moana Shopping Center is nearby.

If you’re in Honolulu for Pride in October, the Ramada Plaza by Wyndham Waikiki is an excellent choice. It’s described as a hidden gem within walking distance of the Hawaii Convention Center, where many Pride activities are held.

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♥ Every room has a balcony
♥ Rooms are decorated in white and blue to match the sand and sea
♥ Friendly, eager staff
♥ Close to shopping and restaurants

The iconic Aston Waikiki Circle Hotel is next door to the Aston Waikiki Beach Tower and it’s one of the most booked budget gay-friendly hotels in Honolulu, Hawaii. It stands out in every picture of Waikiki due to its shape. It’s directly across the road from Waikiki Beach and a block away from the International marketplace.

There is no in-house restaurant for guests, but the extremely popular Eggs ‘n Things, a Honolulu icon for over 40 years, is located on the ground floor, and hotel guests get 10% off.

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3/5
Why we love it

♥ The highest rooftop swimming pool in Honolulu
♥ Every room has a kitchenette
♥ Spacious apartment-style accommodation
♥ Classic style furnishings

Located two blocks from Waikiki Beach, a stay at the Pacific Monarch is like you’re in a fancy apartment with maid service rather than in a hotel. The rooms are classic Hawaiian style, complete with wooden furniture.

The main attraction, of course, is the incredible rooftop pool that overlooks all of Waikiki right to the ocean.

Popular Japanese restaurant Musubi Café Iyasume is located on the ground floor. Its specialties are musubi (rice balls), poke bowls, and bento boxes.

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Why we love it

♥ Extremely attentive service
♥ Addiction nightclub on-site
♥ The Insta-worthy Study Bar
♥ Live music by the pool

Posh, chic, youthful, and exclusive are the words that most spring to mind when you walk into the lobby of The Modern Honolulu. The rooms are minimalist style with lots of white and big comfy couches. We love the pool area, where you can relax on a shaded daybed and listen to live music.

The downside to this hotel for some guests is that as the hotel is near the marina, it’s over a mile away from the nearest beach. However, the Hawaii Convention Center is very close. This is convenient if you’re heading to Honolulu for Pride weekend, as many events are held there.

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3/5
Why we love it

♥ Private pool cabanas
♥ 9-hole mini golf on the 5th floor
♥ Excellent value for money
♥ Next door to a local craft brewery

Holiday Inn Express hotels always offer a lot for a little. The Holiday Inn Express Waikiki is tucked away, three blocks from Waikiki, so you’re away from the hustle and bustle but within walking distance when you want to head out.

The 5th-floor Skydeck is the place to hang out; the pool has private cabanas, and you can play a round of golf or ping pong or workout at the gym.

The modern designed rooms face either the city, the mountains, or the Pacific Ocean. Complimentary breakfast is available at the Express Start Breakfast Bar from 6.30 am to 9.30 am.

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♥ Located near Queens Surf Beach
♥ Rooftop pool deck
♥ Newly renovated rooms
♥ Onsite dinner party Luau

Located right next to Queens Surf Beach — the unofficial gay beach of Honolulu — is the Waikiki Beach Marriott Resort and Spa. This hotel has a lot to offer besides its location. The Queensbreak Paoakalani Adults-Only Pool, for starters. It has private shaded cabanas, big enough for you and three of your besties.

The rooms were renovated in 2020 and have Diamond Head or the Pacific Ocean views. The evening BBQ dinner is coupled with Nashville singers for something a little unique. Country and Western with a beachfront vibe!

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♥ The pool area feels like an oasis in the heart of the city
♥ Award-winning food at Splash Bar
♥ Perfect shopping location
♥ Gay nightlife within a few steps

Located on the corner of the International marketplace, which is home to two gay bars, you couldn’t get a better location for shopping, eating, and partying. It’s only a block from the beach, so you’ve got the best of everything. Gay nightlife within a few steps makes Sheraton Princess Kaiulani the most booked gay-friendly hotel in Honolulu, Hawaii.

The tastefully decorated white and teak rooms offer city, pool, or ocean views. We love the pool area, surrounded by palm trees; it really is an oasis in the middle of the bustling city.

If you’re having breakfast at Splash Bar, you must try the Pineapple Sausage Hash Moco; you’ll thank us later.

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3/5
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♥ Insta Worthy pool area
♥ Across the road from gay nightlife
♥ Teppanyaki at Tanaka of Tokyo
♥ Kitchenette rooms

Set a block back from Waikiki Beach, the OHANA Waikiki East by Outrigger is located conveniently across the road from the International marketplace, where you’ll find two of Honolulu’s gay bars and more just down the road.
The Rooms have city, partial, or total ocean views, and unlike the standard white and blue of most other hotels in Waikiki, they’re decorated in softer shades, and some have kitchenettes.

Snap some pics of the new pool area and post them on Instagram; your friends will be green with envy. If you need some exercise, the fitness center is open from 6 am to 10 pm.

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4/5
Why we love it

♥ Absolute beachfront
♥ Blue Note Hawaii – Jazz Dinner Club
♥ Home of famous Duke’s Waikiki
♥ Every room has a balcony

The Outrigger Waikiki Beach Resort won the Travel Leisure World’s Best Award, and we can see why. The entire resort is dedicated to Hawaii’s most revered waterman, Duke Kahanamoku. The lobby features his rich surf history, and Duke’s Restaurant has all his favorite food and live music from Friday to Monday.

You’re surrounded by Honolulu’s best, located right on Waikiki Beach between the Moana Surfrider and the Royal Hawaiian. Every room has a private balcony; choose from city, partial, or full ocean view.

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