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How does a free wedding for 14 people over a two night luxury stay at The Lodge in Scotland (Mon 20th – Wed 22nd November 2017) sound to you? If you’re a soft-hearted dreamer who wants to ensure that your wedding vows are heartfelt and touching. Here are some samples of romantic vibes from our community to get you started. CLOSING DATE: 30 April 2017, your chance to win a dream wedding is right here & right now!

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Patrick & Renato – Chic, Memorable & Perfect

Moment of the day? This is a hard question because there are so many moments! We wrote our own vows and there was not a single dry eye during the ceremony, which was really emotional, but the speeches our moms gave were amazing!
Big or Small? We invited more than 300 people but most of them were from abroad, since Renato is from Brazil. So at the end 160 people attended our wedding. We are lucky we didn’t have any issues/problems as it was a gay wedding, everyone was just as excited and happy as we were.
Three wedding plan tips? Find a good party planner, trust your vendors and keep calm. Planning a wedding can be stressful but it’s also fun, enjoy the process!
Choosing your perfect venue? Renato had some very specific ideas and Patrick went along with it. He always pictured an outdoor wedding. Since Patrick’s family lives in the wine country so we thought about a California Winery.
When & Where? Our Venue was Chateau St. Jean in Sonoma, California, United States during Spring.

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Moment of the day? It definitely was the ring exchange, Huy had trouble putting the ring on David and everyone had a good laugh. Also we kissed before we were allowed by the judge because we were too excited.
Big or Small? Our family were perfectly fine with the wedding, no problem. It was a small wedding with 45 people. We had brunch after the ceremony and a reception at night. The only challenge was the logistic since everyone was from outside the city.
Choosing your perfect venue? We originally wanted the Campbell house historic mansion and we called literally everywhere, it’s super expensive in Toronto.
Three wedding plan tips? Plan at least a year in advance and do it your way!
When & Where? June 20 2015, we picked a private dinning room at a restaurant called “Hush” during summer in Toronto, Canada.

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Moment of the day? It was a very happy but tearful moment. I had to ask my dear friend to walk me down the aisle because my mother was so resistant and didn’t want to get involved. Her mind changed completely during the actual wedding and she was excited about it and wanted to look her best. I was so overwhelmed that I started to cry uncontrollably. The moment was unforgettable and incredibly special.
Big or Small? 100 guests with our families and friends. Johnny’s Parents were hesitant to come at first. They did not feel comfortable and had not supported the relationship. But once they arrived, the wedding allowed them to meet our friends and witness our relationship in person and that somehow changed their minds.
Three wedding plan tips? Create a budget and try very hard to stick to it. Weddings can be overwhelming and you can very easily get carried away.
Choosing your perfect venue? We went to the Banyan Tree Maradona before and it left such a positive impression on us that we jokingly said we would get married there. When it came time to pick a venue, there was no other place we had in mind.
When & Where? It was in Banyan Tree Manitoba, In Playa del Carmen in Mexico in November 2012.

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Moment of the day? Andi’s mum almost couldn’t come on time because of snowstorm. So they called the police for help to toiled them out of the chaos to the wedding by the police escort. With all helped for Andi’s family to be on time so he could hug his mum. Otherwise he wouldn’t get married without her.
Big or Small? It was quite big at the end with over hundred people of our families and friends. Our families had no problems at all with our wedding. Everybody was so touched because of our love and wedding.
Three wedding plan tips? Try to create a “not too gay – atmosphere”. No need to be the party focus and be as simple as possible. Start early to plan, time is running fast!
Choosing your perfect venue? We wanted something really modern, the place we could dance and party over the roof of Graz.
When & Where? 17 Dec 2011 at an old castle called Schlossberg Restaurant during winter in Graz, Austria.

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Moment of the day? Our favourite moment was listening to the seven hilarious and heartfelt speeches from our friends and each other. Living in Leeds but having grown up in different parts of the world its rare to have all your favourite people under one roof and we loved it.
Big or Small? We had a full day event and had 150 guests to both the ceremony and reception. Both our families were incredibly accepting of us and excited for our wedding in the lead up.
Three wedding plan tips? Ditch the yawn inducing traditions, celebrate your charisma, uniqueness, nerve and talent and throw a party to remember! It can seem overwhelming at times but just remember why you’re getting married rather than getting absorbed with silly details. You’ll have all the people you love in one room so have the best time and party like a rock-star!
Choosing your perfect venue? We aren’t a traditional couple and wanted our wedding to reflect that. The team were completely accepting of all the little eccentricities we introduced to our wedding day. It really makes a difference to the day when you know you have staff to rely on to make sure things run smoothly.
When & Where? It was a beautiful sunny spring day on Sunday the 9th of March, 2017. East Riddlesden Hall, West Yorkshire, England.

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Chan Than San, Los Angeles | Celebrity Bachelor of the Week

Hottest Asian Instagram Model Chan Than San and His Local Gay Travel Tips to Los Angeles

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That’s right guys, Chan Than San is single. Our Britney obsessed, Vietnamese bachelor now is living in LA and looking for love. We suspect his new home is purely because he can be closer to his Oops I did it again idol. Check out his travel tips to LA and what you should definitely not order if you are lucky enough to score a date with him.

“Stay humble… there is always someone better looking, nicer body, better personality, well traveled, more intelligent, highly skilled than you! So drop the attitude you are only impressing yourself …no one else.

Everybody can love ur look but its heart and personality that makes them stay with u :)”

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1. Living in?

Los Angeles

2. From?

Vietnam

3. Profession?

Model/actor

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4. Three apps which you are addicted to?

VSCO, Instagram
& Spotify

5. Favorite part of your body?

My eyes, to see beautiful things and person i love everyday

6. Which part of a hot guy catches your eye the most?

His personality, mostly guys who act confident in themselves catch my eyes a lot

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7. Three things which will get you into bed?

Cologne, single eyelids
& beers

8. Your weirdest turn on?

suddenly kiss me on the lips without touching me

9. The strangest place you have done it?

In a public swimming pool

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10. Three qualities in your perfect boyfriend?

Caring, thoughtful
& love Britney Spears

11. Dealbreaker (Something he does which prevents you dating him)?

Bad breathe, talking bad about other people
& buy me a non-diet coke on first date

12. How long have you been single?

2 years, equal 2 decades

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13. Three reasons to visit?

All you can eat: from korean BBQ to Arab food,
Catching Justin Bieber shopping at Rodeo Drive, or Kim Kardashian taking selfie of her butt on Sunset Blvd
& Beautiful beaches to beaches

14. When is the best time to visit?

LA gay pride

(June 10 & 11 2017)

15. What’s your recommended must do attraction?

Taking photo with the Hollywood sign so people know you are in La, not home

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16. Favorite night to party?

Every friday with my Asian Gangs at Asian Night

17. Where would you go?

Gameboi – the asian club

18. What’s special about it?

Kimchi, ramen, pho or pad thai … all asian for you on friday! From music to hotties

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19. Which neighborhood is best to stay in?

Somewhere a lil out of LA, Disney land or something like that

20. Whats special about that neighborhood?

Well, disneyland and screaming children

21. If you were a tourist visiting which hotel would you stay in?

W hotel, coz the rooms smell so good

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Live from Bangkok SUPER SONGKRAN gCircuit SK11 | Big Fans Forever!

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Wakey-wakey! Hope you all had a fantastic splash during the day and did not miss a chance to became a good girl gone WILD last night. Well well well, you can do it again and hell no, we ain’t gonna sleep tonight (Like a slumber party).

Bear Behaving Badly? Well, you will find out today at Bear Pool Party from 1am to 7pm at U Sathorn Hotel. Seems like bears need hugs very badly!

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Didn’t make it to gCircuit SK11 last night? Two more chances only, so don’t mess it up again. Super Power at the Main Party tonight (7pm to 2am, April 15th) at 22nd Floor, Centara Grand Hotel at CentralWorld.

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Doors open at 7pm (as always), but believe us, there is only one good reason to turn up early.

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Like…this good!

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Or damn good excuses to miss the party and performances inside for those chest & abs outfits to selfie with.

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Who doesn’t love eye candy and some freebie from each party booth that could be handy or needed later on. Right? lol

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Songkran is a beautiful festival that requires safer and more acceptable forms of celebration.

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It’s the world’s biggest water fight festival, so boys should know what best to wear to get (that) girl’s attention #PhotoBomb

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Last night behind the stage – WILD AT HEART!

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here comes the incredible lighting, sounds, inspiring costumes and the dance on the stage that entertains you so well.

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Don’t miss Boy Pool Party tomorrow, once again at U Sathorn Hotel (1pm to 7am, April 16th). Asia’s biggest gay dance festival brings 70 models to the final night at Ink the Closing Party (7pm to 2am, April 16th) at 22nd Floor, Centara Grand Hotel at CentralWorld. Update gCircuit party schedule here.

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We hope you’re getting so wet, soaking wet and keep enjoying that WET! Two more nights are coming your way, let’s make the most of it and get together. Enjoy the incredible experience and we look forward to be here with you again next year, happy weekend to gCircuit lovers and Songkraners!

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Kevin, Sydney | Bachelor of the Week

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Kevin a friendly guy from Vietnam and now studying in Sydney. Kevin loves fashion as much as he loves tanning. You will see his useful travel tips to Sydney below and his inspiring pics too, coz we know you are now thinking of his tan line 😉

“I love fashion, photography and modeling. In my free time I like to go to the gym, hiking and see the beach. I’m friendly, easy going and open minded. Into meeting new people and you will know the real me when you meet me.”

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1. Living in?

Sydney, Australia

2. From?

Ho Chi Minh city, Viet Nam

3. Profession?

My third year in Macquarie University major in Marketing and I’m working part time

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4. Three apps which you are addicted to?

Facebook, Instagram
& Snapchat

5. Favorite part of your body?

My Abs, Chest, Lips
& my Lower back 😉

6. Which part of a hot guy catches your eye the most?

His chest, face
& his smile

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7. Three things which will get you into bed?

Muscular and that Dirty talk

8. Your weirdest turn on?

I like guy with tanned skin, muscular and nice butt (That my strangest thing haha)

9. The strangest place you have done it?

A resort’s outdoor bathroom

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10. Three qualities in your perfect boyfriend?

He respects you, makes you feel secure & loved, and also great in bed

11. Dealbreaker (Something he does which prevents you dating him)?

Dating behaviors (dating multiple partners, already in a relationship), Bad in bed
& Poor hygiene

12. How long have you been single?

I just broke up a 2 years relationship

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13. Three reasons to visit?

Sydney has long been on the radar of most LGBT TRAVELERS, thanks to its reputation for tolerance and openness as well, of course, as its many natural and man-made attractions for international TRAVELERS

14. When is the best time to visit?

Sydney’s gay calendar is of course the Mardi Gras festival, parade and dance party held in late February/early March every year when tens of thousands of visitors pour into Sydney for one of the world’s biggest and best celebrations of all things

15. What’s your recommended must do attraction?

Go SNORKELING at Shelly Beach, Get active in Palm Beach and Head to the Blue Mountains

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16. Favorite night to party?

Friday and Saturday

17. Where would you go?

Arq and Midnight Shift

18. What’s special about it?

Arq – Boasting one of the city’s best sound systems and lighting rigs, this spacious, two-level club is by far the best decked out club in the LGBT scene (No cheese, no shirts and no attitude)
Midnight shift – This long serving gay watering hole FAVORITE is in recent years particularly popular with young Asian guys each weekend, There’s drag shows and themed nights during the week too, eleborate new production shows and parties attract punters to go upstairs where there’s a second SIZE-ABLE dancing space

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19. Which neighborhood is best to stay in?

Surry Hills, Darlinghurst
& CBD Sydney

20. Whats special about that neighborhood?

Oxford street – Close to the CBD in particular, the street is lined with numerous shops, bars and nightclubs

21. If you were a tourist visiting which hotel would you stay in?

Meriton Apartment, Hilton
& QT Hotel

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Kevin on coming out & life as a gay man:

“My life hasn’t changed much since I came out but I’ve learned how to protect myself and get stronger, actually I didn’t come out with my family for some reasons, only to my friends and on social media.

Australia is freedom country, especially in Sydney. Same sex marriage has been on the political agenda in Australia for several years, as part of the broader debate about the legal recognition of same sex relationships.

It is really hard to come out to my family cause I’m the only child but I hope one day they will understand and accept me in personally and LGBT in generally. I’ve made so many friends and social networks. I’m happy because I get to be myself.”

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Cameron, Los Angeles | Bachelor of the Week

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Cameron lived in Taiwan for 12 years before moving to America. The young & talented bachelor was a piano prodigy and had a scene in Iron Man 2 (but it ended up on the cutting room floor, which he was devastated.) Now you will be devastated if you miss out his interview below.

“My Instagram opened a whole new world for me. I’m extremely passionate about travel and photography. I try to keep my feed as tasteful as possible. I’ve connected with a lot of great people through Instagram that have become my friends in real life.”

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1. Living in?

Los Angeles

2. From?

Born in Taiwan, but grew up in La.

3. Profession?

Luxury and Entertainment Marketing/PR

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4. Three apps which you are addicted to?

Instagram, Facebook
& Whatsapp

5. Favorite part of your body?

My height… not really a body part, but I’m 6 foot tall and I love it! 🙂

6. Which part of a hot guy catches your eye the most?

His face

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7. Three things which will get you into bed?

Amazing chemistry, intelligence
& a nice beard

8. Your weirdest turn on?

A British accent

9. The strangest place you have done it?

Ha, I would get in a lot of trouble if I say this publicly. Ask me privately 🙂

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10. Three qualities in your perfect boyfriend?

A great sense of humor, successful
& loyal

11. Dealbreaker (Something he does which prevents you dating him)?

Still living at home

12. How long have you been single?

It’s been long enough!

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13. Three reasons to visit?

1. We have one of the liveliest gay scenes in the US

2. Amazing food and dining scene- Smorgasburg LA is a weekly food market, that is a must!

3. Great weather all year round

14. When is the best time to visit?

June. The weather is great during this time, and Pride Festival is normally in June, it has been called “Gaychella”, the gay version of “Coachella”, because of the caliber of the musical acts we get.

15. What’s your recommended must do attraction?

1. There’s something magical about being at the Griffith Observatory during sunset, You get a magnificent view of all of LA.
2. Drive up the Pacific Coast Highway to Malibu, It’s a beautiful scenic drive along the ocean
3. The Broad Museum

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16. Favorite night to party?

Saturday for sure!

17. Where would you go?

The Chapel or Precinct

18. What’s special about it?

Great crowd, strong drinks and it’s always packed

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19. Which neighborhood is best to stay in?

West Hollywood

20. Whats special about that neighborhood?

Walking distance to the gay scene and 20 mins from the beach (if no traffic)

21. If you were a tourist visiting which hotel would you stay in?

The London West Hollywood if you want to be in the center of the gay scene, or Shutters by the Beach in Santa Monica if you want to be by the beach

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Cameron on coming out & life as a gay man:

“You learn that some people will never accept it and part of the process of coming out is accepting that loss. It’s important to surround yourself with people that are accepting and let go of the ones that are not.

My life has been great since coming out. Like everything else in LA, the gay scene here is extremely superficial, but at the same time, everyone is hot. It’s a double-edged sword.

Open relationship is somewhat considered a norm in the gay world. I don’t have a problem with people that choose to be in open relationships, but personally I would much prefer a monogamous relationship.

My favorite part is the sense of community that we have. There’s nothing more exciting than seeing a community of people coming together to celebrate who we are. Also, gays know how to party, I have yet been disappointed!”

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Why I choose Russia for an LGBT Uni Exchange | Kyle Malinda White

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In Siberia, the Russian city of Tomsk lies some four hours away from the city of Novosibirsk, Russia’s third-largest city after Moscow and St. Petersburg.

Populated with half a million people, Tomsk is known for being a university town with Tomsk State University as its oldest and Siberia’s first. This causes Tomsk to be slightly different from other cities in Russia, with a more younger, educated and liberal populace.

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While it is certainly no precursor for the rife homophobia that exists in Russia, it has led to some creative ways for the local LGBT scene to flourish despite measures of secrecy still being put into place.

Being there for a two-week winter exchange programme with my university led me to begin discovering gay life there and how safe it would be to be a gay man in Russia, a country where homophobic killings are heard of in the streets.

My interest in discovering Tomsk led to much opposition back home. Many had feared for my safety and security, with school representatives, LGBT activists and fellow friends telling me to “butch it up” (to quote someone) as a safety armour.

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But I was not deterred. It led me to start searching online about the various activities that LGBTs had in Tomsk – and if they were indeed living there, there would at least be one safe space or activity created by activists, right?

My search was difficult. Armed with no knowledge of Russian, it was tough navigating websites – some, with outdated information and inaccurate clubs that were indeed for a straight audience. An article about gay life in Tomsk by The Tab comforted me that such a scene was indeed present.

It led me to realise the complex nature of secrecy held by the LGBT community there for fear of being outed or having their safety compromised: LGBT groups on social media website VKontakte and photo app Instagram were locked, only allowed for those who showed they were above 18 and had photos of their faces.

My search led me to two things: the gay app Hornet which is heavily used in Russia, and the club Boys Town. Using Hornet when I arrived in Tomsk was a challenge: many profiles had fake photos and a lot of coaxing had to be done to reveal their face photos.

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Adam* did not have a fake photo, and my discussion with him revealed that people tend to do this for fear or either being baited by straight men pretending to be gay and then compromising their safety, or keeping their sexuality a secret so they will not get outed by others (although one could easily out the other person because he too is on Hornet, if he wanted to).

Many other discussions with men from Hornet led to sad tales: not being able to come out and be open, only having lesser than 5 friends know about their sexuality, even sometimes not having someone to talk to about their feelings. Family, too, are unaware and they fear the worst if they are found out.

For some, they let loose in safe spaces. Boys Town is located at the back of an unlit warehouse centre, and one would think he is walking into a dangerous area. But a small door and a coat-check with a few flirty bouncers lets you down two floors into an underground club where drag queens entertain to uplift spirits.

The club can easily fit 100, but only has lesser than 20 people. Adam tells me that people here do not go out to gay clubs as much for fear of being outed by friends in a climate where being gay is still unacceptable. This does not mean the club isn’t fun: a pole sits in the middle of the dance floor, the bartenders are smiling, and the crazy Russian drunkards smile and greet you as one of their own. Sometimes, they writhe on your table.

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Adam also tells me that going out in Russia is a luxury. For those who live in a small town like Tomsk, a lack of good jobs has led to a much lower standard of living. It’s why many are making the move to bigger cities, such as Novosibirsk, for their big break. For a gay man, their interactions are at best reduced to contacts they meet on Hornet.

However, LaSky Tomsk, an organisation in Tomsk dealing with the MSM community, organises board game nights every Friday for people who wish to have another safe space to interact and make new friends.

The organisation is part of a Russian-wide LGBT network where some 10 provinces in Russia join forces in providing support, education and resources to the MSM community on matters ranging from HIV/AIDS to coming out in hetero-normative Russia.

Tom*, the coordinator of the programme, tells me that the Tomsk programme has been difficult to implement: many gays in Tomsk have not come out and reaching out to them is not easy. The programme has recently started using Telegram and social media profiles on VKontakte and Hornet to reach out to this group of people instead.

Tom is confident that universities will be a great way to reach out to the young – and he was heartened to hear that in Singapore, the Inter-University LGBT Network coordinates with various LGBT support groups in major universities.

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There is however a problem: LaSky Tomsk can only do so via their sister arm which deals with HIV/AIDS education but for a wider audience, including heterosexuals. Tom has tried asking these universities to use their MSM programme to but it has come up short.

He said that Tomsk’s unique position as a university town has made its younger inhabitants more liberal – and that the mayor of Tomsk recently defended anti-gay protestors who complained that a doctor’s clinic was using gay propaganda by painting their stairs in a rainbow although the colours used were not the ones found on the rainbow pride flag.

There is hope for a city like Tomsk to pave the way for LGBT rights in Russia, if it were not marred by more bread-and-butter concerns that have made its citizens afraid of protesting on the streets, calling for concerted action by Russian authorities.

But for a city that does not have a lot, it gives more than it can receive. Russian hospitality here reigns king – as a guest in the town, locals treated me well and brought me around to explore their city. I heard from some friends that I made that this is not a foreigner-only behaviour: in general, extending hospitality to a guest is a key part of Russian culture.

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It is the first weekend of December and Tomsk’s main square, Novosobornaya Square, is illuminated with Christmas lights and adorned with ice carvings. Children of all ages queue up for blini or pancakes – the staple Russian fast food – at under $1 a pop. Even adults join in the fun, singing songs to random strangers and dancing in the middle of the square.

Between this and the two Russian drunk patrons of Boys Town who were writhing on my table and giving each other lap dances and hugs, I gather that Tomsk is a place where people bask in the simple things: companionship, great fun and someone to confide in.

There is a lot of joy in what is simple and even though the city is still leaps and bounds in the fight for LGBT equality, the kindness of the city and the apparent liberal attitudes of the younger populace make Tomsk a city to look out for as a safe haven in Russia.

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Kyle Malinda-White is a journalist based in Singapore, founder of culture news portal Popspoken and public relations director of the Inter-University LGBT Network, Singapore. He can be found on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram musing about politics and life and when he’s not writing, he is either in the gym or perusing art galleries – both highly typical things gays do. He also has a subversive sense of humour.

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Huy, Ho Chi Minh | Bachelor of the Week

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Huy, a guy with killer smile and his talent of playing ukulele. He’s just finished studying and now looking for a job even though he has his own restaurant, ambitious guy!

“I’m an active guy and love to travel, learning new cultures, making new friends wherever I go and taking good photos”

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BASIC

1. Living in?

Ho Chi Minh, Vietnam

2. From?

Bien Hoa, Vietnam

3. Profession?

I just finished school for 6 months. Now looking for office jobs. Beside that I own a small restaurant in my hometown

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ABOUT

4. Three apps which you are addicted to?

Instagram, Facebook
& facetune

5. Favorite part of your body?

My face and my butts 😉

6. Which part of a hot guy catches your eye the most?

His butts, arms and his height

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7. Three things which will get you into bed?

Hot tall guys, no drama
& personal emotion

8. Your weirdest turn on?

I like to go to cinema on the first date
and cuddle in silent lol

9. The strangest place you have done it?

A balcony

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LOVE

10. Three qualities in your perfect boyfriend?

Good lover material, successful
& understanding

11. Dealbreaker (Something he does which prevents you dating him)?

Liar, disrespectful person
& drama

12. How long have you been single?

3 years

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TRAVEL HO CHI MINH

13. Three reasons to visit?

Nice sky bars, friendly people
& the most gay friendly city in Vietnam

14. When is the best time to visit?

All year around, except during Lunar new year because everyone stop their business for relax

15. What’s your recommended must do attraction?

Try as much local food as possible cuz for me Vietnamese food is the best! 😉

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DRINK HO CHI MINH

16. Favorite night to party?

Saturday night is the best!

17. Where would you go?

M Galleries rooftop, Fusion rooftop
& Republic

18. What’s special about it?

Republic is the only gay club in town, while other two have a nice city views

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19. Which neighborhood is best to stay in?

District 1

20. Whats special about that neighborhood?

City centre and it gets busy even at night

21. If you were a tourist visiting which hotel would you stay in?

Pullman, Liberty Point

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Huy on coming out & life as a gay man:

“HCM city is quite open for gay. You can hug, hand in hand on streets but don’t go too far though. Some people still hate gay but majority is very supportive for gay community.

I’m very open about my personal life so almost all my friends know and they still treat me well as usual. My favorite part about being a gay is you can be successful and beautiful at the same time, not many straight  man can do lol.

Actually I haven’t had official come out yet. Some people have the idea of me not into girls, and some aren’t sure. I guess this is one of many ways I can come out and show poeple who I am.”
 

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Titan, Taipei | Bachelor of the Week

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Titan, a talented Taiwanese artist who’s passionate about graphic design and singing. He loves to smile and believes that everything will always end up OK! Find out about him below and don’t forgot to check out his signing videos on Facebook.

“I love to travel, photo shooting, music and especially singing. You could see some clips on my FB or Instagram 🙂 I’m a very shy guy (at first) but actually I’m talkative. Oh! if you have anything interesting & cool please share with me.”

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BASIC

1. Living in?

Taipei

2. From?

Taipei, Taiwan

3. Profession?

graphic designer
& street artist (singer)

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ABOUT

4. Three apps which you are addicted to?

Facebook, Snapseed
& Instagram

5. Favorite part of your body?

My eyes … Lol

6. Which part of a hot guy catches your eye the most?

His big smile and also his big arms

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7. Three things which will get you into bed?

chemistry, good talk
& music

8. Your weirdest turn on?

I really like the confidence he spreads through his talking

9. The strangest place you have done it?

A cabin in the wild in Norway

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10. Three qualities in your perfect boyfriend?

a. full of passion to his/our lives
b. sense of humor
c. could workout together 😉

11. Dealbreaker (Something he does which prevents you dating him)?

Being arrogant

12. How long have you been single?

Couple of months 🙁

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13. Three reasons to visit?

a. you could easily plan for city
& countryside
b. LGBT friendly
c. Night markets for yummy local food, like beef noodle and minced pork & rice

14. When is the best time to visit?

All year around, I’m serious 😉

15. What’s your recommended must do attraction?

Taipei 101, the red house
& Dihua street

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16. Favorite night to party?

Definitely on Friday
& Saturday

17. Where would you go?

lol, actually I seldom go clubbing
but The Red House
& Abrazo are the one you must go

18. What’s special about it?

Basically, there will be lots of fresh meat! lol

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19. Which neighborhood is best to stay in?

Ximen or Xinyi district

20. Whats special about that neighborhood?

Convenient for shopaholics
& party boys 😉

21. If you were a tourist visiting which hotel would you stay in?

I would recommend emba hotel, It’s convenient and close to the urban area in the city

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Titan on coming out & life as a gay man:

“My life hasn’t changed much since I came out but I’ve learned how to protect myself and get stronger from negative vibes. Fortunately, Taiwan is very gay friendly, especially in Taipei. Same-sex marriage equality might be legally in the next few years, let’s celebrate!

My favorite parts about being gay & living a gay lifestyle is that most gay men love to workout and keep themselves in perfect condition. And the part that I don’t like is gossiping or talking back to others but I guess it happens to all genders, right?”
 

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Finally, the day has arrived! Some people love it, many hate it but it’s here anyway. We have got your fix of super cute gay couples! If your Instagram feeds needs some more romance to balance out the 6-pack gym selfies then start following these jet-setting adorable couples.

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1. Danny & Ron – Just For Fun

Thoughts on joint IG accounts? We actually have no intention of joining because we both have different audiences. 🙂
First Met? We met in TABOO, Singapore most popular dance gay club in Nov 2014.
Dream Honeymoon Destinations? We will definitely be visiting Bali, Japan & Boracay.
Ideal Valentine’s Day? Spending time together (staycation), gym and a romantic candle light dinner! 😉
Top 3 Parties?
There are the best and the must go! ZoukOut in Singapore, White Party and gCircuit Songkran party in Bangkok, Thailand.

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2. Rissieri & Petros –  Travel, Happiness & lighting

Thoughts on joint IG accounts? We thought about it, but we both have so much from our lives that we love to share, so we set up the hashtag #petrissi 😉
First Met? We met in Dec 2008 internet dating and our first date was in a coffee shop. lol
Dream Honeymoon Destinations? We are heading to  Vietnam and Thailand next month. Plus we would love to visit Seychelles and Fiji.
Ideal Valentine’s Day? Cooking class is fun, boat ride to relax and dinner at private beach would be lovely. 
Top 3 Parties?
NYE in Rio, Carnival in Salvador and Halloween in NYC are our top!

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3. Andee & Hugo – Love, Food & Travel

Thoughts on joint IG accounts? Well we do have a hashtag now, #HugoDee! As for joint account, that might be a good idea especially since we always take so many pictures and videos every time we are out.
First Met? We first met at Singapore National Gallery on 1st of January 2017, when Hugo came for a vacation (from Taiwan). It was love at first sight! We love our chemistry, there wasn’t a moment of awkwardness. It’s still very sweet thinking back at that day 😉
Dream Honeymoon Destinations? Miami, Phi Phi Island and El Nido Palawan. Hopefully it won’t be all just a “dream” – we’ll make them happen for sure! Then we can update you guys with the amazing pictures!
Ideal Valentine’s Day? We’ll be skyping the night away as we won’t be together. But these what we will do! Exploring & eating good food, cooking & whipping up a good meals and cuddling in bed. We are all about food aren’t we?
Top 3 Parties? To be honest, we aren’t a fan of parties. That’s what we have in common too! We would really prefer spending time at a nice cafe/traveling/strolling in a park/and maybe in bed watching Netflix and spending quality time 🙂

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4. Craig & Dion – Networking, Friends & Inspiration

Thoughts on joint IG accounts? It works for some people and there are a few successful joint Instagramers – but it’s not for us.
First Met? We were introduced by a mutual friend, and stayed in contact for a long time before we eventually decided to go on a date 5 moths ago. 🙂 🙂
Dream Honeymoon Destinations? We would love to go to Japan, Maldives & Greece
Ideal Valentine’s Day? Have a beautiful breakfast together. Watch the sunset with a cheese platter and a bottle of wine. Lastly, a quiet night in watching a nice movie on the couch, cuddled up together. 
Top 3 Parties? 
Mardi Gras After Party, I Remember House and Halloween party. All three have been in Sydney!

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5. Guillaume & Lok Man – Energising, Social, Share

Thoughts on joint IG accounts? We love joint account that we are having now as @bananaeggshake. It gives us the ability to share our day to day and love with people around the world, also to meet interesting folks.
First Met? Back in 2009, in a night club in Hong Kong, Guillaume was a tourist. It was mutual love at first sight, we danced together and kissed.
Dream Honeymoon Destinations? Maldives (we had our honeymoon there), Bali and Greece.
Ideal Valentine’s Day? Great food, great wine and cuddles 😉 😉
Best 3 Parties?
Songkran Bangkok (water fight), junk-boat parties and last but not least the party where we met in 2009.

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6. Adrian & Son – Creative, Self Expression & Colorful

Thoughts on joint IG accounts? We actually already have one, it’s @away.we.wow where we post pictures of places we have been to. Its a fantastic way to express our love for traveling, learning new things and trying new food.
First Met? We met at a birthday party when I just moved back from the States to Vietnam in 2011. One of my high school sweetheart ended up to be a really closed friend with Adrian.
Dream Honeymoon Destinations? Iceland, Cuba and Maldives.
Ideal Valentine’s Day? Having a great dinner, a good movie and… Sex 😉
Top 3 Parties?
We like to travel more than going to parties, so to be honest this is a really tough question to answer. We both agreed that going to Songkran festival in BKK is really amazing!

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7. Matt & Taylor – Fun, Vibrant & Energetic

Thoughts on joint IG accounts? We have thought about it, but individual accounts are fun, we get to put photos up of each other and followers can go on each of our pages to see our journey through different eyes.
First Met? We met at our local cafe, almost 2 years ago. I noticed his cute smile and vibrant energy while I was grabbing a quick bite. I later commented on his photo on Instagram because we had the same meal, we had coffee dates for about a month, which turned into dinner dates, the rest is history.
Dream Honeymoon Destinations? Sailing through Croatia, Maldives or the Greek Islands.
Ideal Valentine’s Day? A couples massage! I know that sounds cheesy but it’s nice! A nice dinner somewhere (Taylor is organising this year) and spend time relaxing with our puppy.
Top 3 Parties? 
Parties at the snowfields in Canada were amazing, weekend at Madrid Gras and New York City birthday celebrations.

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8. Ken & Richmond – Travel, Fashion & Adventure

Thoughts on joint IG accounts? As much as we are in love and married, we still keep a little bit of privacy and still have our individual relationships with other people.
First Met? We met through a friend of ours while partying in May 2015 in Boracay Island in Philippines.
Dream Honeymoon Destinations? We would like to visit places we’ve both never been together before, such as Rio de Janeiro in Brazil, Capetown in South Africa and Reykjavik in Iceland.
Ideal Valentine’s Day? Hit the beach, F***  and then have a nice romantic dinner. 😉
Top 3 Parties? 
StereoSonic music festival in Sydney Australia, Songkran in Bangkok, Thailand, and Circuit Party in Barcelon, Spain. Love it!

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9. Neil & Jean François – Holidays, Parties & Friends

Thoughts on joint IG accounts? We’ve never actually thought about it – since we don’t live together it’s maybe a bit more complicated. Maybe once we’re living in the same city and once we get a cat …that will be the moment for a joint account haha 😛
First Met? We first met in the Netherlands in 2015. I (Neil) was living there and like all 21st century romances we met through a dating app. JF lives in Paris but had a friend in the Netherlands. One weekend me came to visit and so we met up and well the rest is history. 🙂
Dream Honeymoon Destinations? Hawaii, New Zealand and Argentina. We like active holidays so even a honeymoon would be like that for us. 😉
Ideal Valentine’s Day? We won’t be together this valentines I’m living in Scotland this year since I’m gone back to Uni for a year. If we are together in Paris then for sure a nice romantic meal, followed by a romantic stroll along the Seine. Then come home to the sofa and snuggle up with a movie.
Top 3 Parties?
Sagi Kariv closing party (Forever Tel Aviv) at la Riviera 2016 Madrid Razzmatazz Barcelona Sagi Kariv – (Circuit festival) 2016 Rio Carnival pool party (Revolution) 2013.

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10. Mike & Stef – My Favorite App!

Thoughts on joint IG accounts? I think based on Instagram, it’s best we do our own. We’re different people and definitely respecting that. We would prefer a joint vblog account.
First Met? We met at Stef’s 18th birthday in Oct. 2014 (I crashed it haha).
Dream Honeymoon Destinations? Indonesia, Japan and Greece. I would definitely LOVE to take Stef to Greece someday! That would be more than a goal! (Also Iceland and India)
Ideal Valentine’s Day? We’re going to Waterpark, movie to cap off the night and coffee, then enjoy an evening together for Valentine’s Day, we’re really easy to please!
Top 3 Parties? 
Road to Ultra, Lovedance 2015 (Stef passed out hahaha) and Stef’s birthday I guess coz of where/how we met. (We don’t go out a lot but when we do it’s intense).

Local Gay European Influencer Instagram Karl & Daan Amsterdam & Berlin
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11. Karl & Daan – Best Travel Diary

Thoughts on joint IG accounts? We have a joint account as @coupleofmen to show our followers the world. We travel together as openly gay couple to find the best places to stay and things to experience while exploring the world. Nothing better than having a joint account where both contribute the best ideas. 🙂
First Met? We met at a gay party in Berlin. I (Karl) was living in Berlin back then, Daan was visiting for a week from Amsterdam, it was love on the first sight. 
Dream Honeymoon Destinations? 
It’s a difficult question! It could be Japan again (we loved it last time we were there), New Zealand and then Chile. We love to stay in wellness & spa resorts in the middle of the forest or close to nature. Nothing better than wake up with breakfast in private pool over the view of endless green.
Ideal Valentine’s Day? A day with spa & massage, yummy & healthy cuisine, and then sleeping together without setting an alarm. Most importantly, we wanna spend sometime together with our appointments. 😉
Top 3 Parties? 
One week on a gay cruise with la demence, it was non stop party on a cruise ship. Tel Aviv the final pride party by Offer Nissim, and Rapido in Amsterdam.

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